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Domestic Violence
Domestic violence (also referred to as intimate partner violence (IPV), dating abuse, or relationship abuse) is a pattern of behaviors used by one partner to maintain power and control over another partner in an intimate relationship.
At Daya we help people who are experiencing abuse from:
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An intimate partner, a spouse, or a dating partner
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A family member or in-laws
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A member of their household
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Some examples of domestic violence are:
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Physical - pushing, slapping, hitting, punching, choking, or throwing objects
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Sexual - forced, coerced, or unwanted sexual contact
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Emotional - blaming, constant criticism, name calling, bullying, yelling/screaming
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Psychological- denying abuse, silent treatments, fear tactics, threats of harm or death
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Financial - controlling all finances and purchases, taking your money, opening credit cards in your name without your permission
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Spiritual - not allowing you to practice your religion, forcing you to practice another religion, using religious text to justify their abuse
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Digital- controlling your email, social media accounts, phone calls, or texts; posting on behalf of you online, sharing your private information online
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Stalking- Tracking your car, phone, or movements; following you, showing up to your home or office unannounced to scare you.
Domestic violence follows a pattern in which each step is used to control, scare, or confuse you. This cycle has a tension phase, explosion phase, and honeymoon phase during which things appear normal to confuse you.
​Domestic violence is not just a private matter or a woman’s issue, it is a public health issue that can affect anyone regardless of ethnicity, culture, education, religion, and socioeconomic status.
Our staff is trained to support you with:
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Safety planning & documentation
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Understanding your rights
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Legal Advocacy
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Counseling